Becoming

Becoming

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An intimate, powerful, and inspiring memoir by the former First Lady of the United States In a life filled with meaning and accomplishment, Michelle Obama has emerged as one of the most iconic and compelling women of our era. As First Lady of the United States of America - the first African-American to serve in that role - she helped create the most welcoming and inclusive White House in history, while also establishing herself as a powerful advocate for women and girls in the U.S. and around the world, dramatically changing the ways that families pursue healthier and more active lives, and standing with her husband as he led America through some of its most harrowing moments. Along the way, she showed us a few dance moves, crushed Carpool Karaoke, and raised two down-to-earth daughters under an unforgiving media glare. In her memoir, a work of deep reflection and mesmerizing storytelling, Michelle Obama invites readers into her world, chronicling the experiences that have shaped her - from her childhood on the South Side of Chicago to her years as an executive balancing the demands of motherhood and work, to her time spent at the world's most famous address. With unerring honesty and lively wit, she describes her triumphs and her disappointments, both public and private, telling her full story as she has lived it - in her own words and on her own terms. Warm, wise, and revelatory, Becoming is the deeply personal reckoning of a woman of soul and substance who has steadily defied expectations - and whose story inspires us to do the same.
Publisher: New York : Crown, [2018]
Edition: First edition.
ISBN: 9781524763138
1524763136
Branch Call Number: B OBAMA 2018
Characteristics: xiii, 426 pages : illustrations (chiefly color) ; 25 cm

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timewellspent
Jan 18, 2020

Michelle Obama wrote a wonderful book for women! And we love it!

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lewis771
Jan 18, 2020

Lawyer, 1st Lady and wife of the 44th President.

LPL_JillM Jan 13, 2020

I highly recommend listening to the audiobook version of "Becoming." Michelle Obama is the reader, and it is wonderful to listen to this book in her voice with her inflections and emphases. The fascinating story of a fascinating person of integrity. I enjoyed learning about her past and how it formed who she became and what was important to her. This book was so good, I looked forward to my commute!

TSCPL_Miranda Jan 13, 2020

What a powerful book! It was interesting to read about the beginnings of Barack Obama's political career from the perspective of someone close to him, but it was Michelle's personal story, written with warmth and candor, that interested me more. Her determination to succeed in the classroom and forge a path to success despite what others might say to discourage her resonated with me deeply. Like Michelle, I have often found myself saying "I'll show them." I loved reading about Michelle and Barack's relationship, from friends to the ultimate power couple. I read the proposal scene aloud to my daughter, because she is a fan of grand gestures, and this was a good one. More than anything, I appreciated Michelle's ability to be frank about the challenges that she faced, over and over, and how she was able to overcome those challenges through her own grit, with the support of a wonderful network. I can see why so many readers raved about this one, and I'm so glad that I finally got around to it!

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ddr_74
Jan 09, 2020

Once I opened the book, I couldn't put it down. It was awesome to have this view into their lives, the ups and downs of growing up in their neighbourhoods, and striving to get all they could out of their lives, both in and out of the White House. I laughed and I cried throughout this book - my favourite was "Is there a clown car?" Definitely a must-read!

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LaMiracle
Jan 06, 2020

This was such an amazing book. I can honestly say that I was captivated from the very beginning. It was a great read and also inspired me to figure out my own story and find some similarities within myself. I highly recommend reading it! It exceeded my expectations. Also, check out the journal that she released per the success of the book. It has helped me rekindle my love for journaling and will be beneficial in the future to see my growth as a person. Kudos to Michelle!

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d10786694p
Jan 04, 2020

I totally loved this book. Michelle was so honest and open, and really shared what was in her heart and what she was feeling. I enjoyed reading about the things that happen behind the scenes. I'm not into politics - but felt this book just had enough politics in it to not weigh me down. A great read.

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runningbeat
Jan 03, 2020

Interesting book, her life before she because the first lady, and what it was like to raise a family when her husband became president and what they went through.

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BarbaraJ_1962
Jan 02, 2020

I really enjoyed this book. I always enjoy a story about someone who works hard and succeeds despite challenges and barriers. I also found very interesting the contrast between Barack Obama, the White House under him and his administration, and the very different situation under the current president. Michelle Obama has a writing style that is very easy to read. I hope she writes something else, perhaps about life after that as FLOTUS.

IndyPL_CarolS Dec 10, 2019

I enjoyed reading about Michelle Obama's life as a child, teen, and adult. Also I enjoyed reading about her life with Barack from dating, to marriage, having two girls and life in the white House. The Epilogue was from when Barack and she left the White House and transition. She has had a very interesting life, My only complaint is the book was slow moving for me. I felt Michelle's writing was very wordy . There were times I had to read a passage again to understand what she was talking about.

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result.” - p. 43

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?” - p. 118

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cknightkc
Jun 23, 2019

“For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.” - p. 419

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

Many quotes in goodreads already, likely includes many below:

I’ve wanted to ask my detractors which part of that phrase matters to them the most — is it “angry” or “black” or “woman”?
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Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.
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Everything that mattered was within a five-block radius — my grandparents and cousins, the church on the corner where we were not quite regulars at Sunday school, the gas station where my mother sometimes sent me to pick up a pack of Newport’s, and the liquor store, which also sold Wonder bread, penny candy, and gallons of milk.
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Robbie and Terry were older. They grew up in a different era, with different concerns. They’d seen things our parents hadn’t — things that Craig and I, in our raucous childishness, couldn’t begin to guess.
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He was devoted to his car, a bronze - colored two - door Buick Electra 225, which he referred to with pride as “the Deuce and a Quarter.”

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

If you’d had a head start at home, you were rewarded for it at school, deemed “bright” or “gifted,” which in turn only compounded your confidence. The advantages aggregated quickly.
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Kids found one another based not on the color of their skin but on who was outside and ready to play.
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In 1950, fifteen years before my parents moved to South Shore, the neighborhood had been 96 percent white. By the time I’d leave for college in 1981, it would be about 96 percent black.
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If my mother were somebody different, she might have done the polite thing and said, “Just go and do your best.” But she knew the difference. She knew the difference between whining and actual distress.
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Their anger over it can manifest itself as unruliness. It’s hardly their fault. They aren’t “bad kids.” They’re just trying to survive bad circumstances

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

For the next nine years, knowing that I’d earned it, I made myself a fat peanut butter and jelly sandwich for breakfast each morning and consumed not a single egg.
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My grandfather, born in 1912, was the grandson of slaves, the son of a millworker, and the oldest of what would be ten children in his family. A quick-witted and intelligent kid, he’d been nicknamed “the Professor” and set his sights early on the idea of someday going to college. But not only was he black and from a poor family, he also came of age during the Great Depression.
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If you wanted to work as an electrician (or as a steelworker, carpenter, or plumber, for that matter) on any of the big job sites in Chicago, you needed a union card. And if you were black, the overwhelming odds were that you weren’t going …
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Speaking a certain way — the “white” way, as some would have it — was perceived as a betrayal, as being uppity, as somehow denying our culture.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.
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I tore through the lessons, quietly keeping tabs on where I stood among my peers as we charted our progress from long division to pre-algebra, from writing single paragraphs to turning in full research papers. For me, it was like a game. And as with any game, like most any kid, I was happiest when I was ahead.
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Advice, when she offered it, tended to be of the hard-boiled and pragmatic variety. “You don’t have to like your teacher,” she told me one day after I came home spewing complaints. “But that woman’s got the kind of math in her head that you need in yours. Focus on that and ignore the rest. ”
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Her goal was to push us out into the world. “I’m not raising babies,” she’d tell us. “I’m raising adults.”
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We weren’t going to “hang out” or “take a walk.” We were going to make out. And we were both all for it.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

I was caught up in the lonely thrill of being a teenager now, convinced that the adults around me had never been there themselves.
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Was she picturing herself on a tropical island somewhere? With a different kind of man, or in a different kind of house, or with a corner office instead of kids? I don’t know, and I suppose I could ask my mother, who is now in her eighties, but I don’t think it matters.
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If you’ve never passed a winter in Chicago, let me describe it: You can live for a hundred straight days beneath an iron-gray sky that claps itself like a lid over the city. Frigid, biting winds blow in off the lake. Snow falls in dozens of ways, in heavy overnight dumps and daytime, sideways squalls, in demoralizing sloppy sleet and fairy-tale billows of fluff. There’s ice, usually, lots of it, that shellacs the sidewalks and windshields that then need to be scrapped.
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I hadn’t needed to show her anything. I was only showing myself.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

I hoped that someday my feelings for a man would knock me sideways, that I’d get swept into the upending, tsunami-like rush that seemed to power all the best love stories.
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I’d been raised on the bedrock of football, basketball, and baseball, but it turned out that East Coast prep schoolers did more. Lacrosse was a thing. Field hockey was a thing. Squash, even, was a thing. For a kid from the South Side, it could be a little dizzying. “You row crew?” What does that even mean?
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It was hardly a straight meritocracy. There were the athletes, for example. There were the legacy kids, whose fathers and grandfathers had been Tigers or whose families had funded the building of a dorm or a library.
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If in high school I’d felt as if I were representing my neighborhood, now at Princeton I was representing my race.

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jimg2000
Feb 05, 2019

In my experience, you put a suit on any half-intelligent black man and white people tended to go bonkers.
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To me, he was sort of like a unicorn — unusual to the point of seeming almost unreal.
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Compared with my own lockstep march toward success, the direct arrow shot of my trajectory from Princeton to Harvard to my desk on the forty-seventh floor, Barack’s path was an improvisational zigzag through disparate worlds.
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He was in law school, he explained, because grassroots organizing had shown him that meaningful societal change required not just the work of the people on the ground but stronger policies and governmental action as well.
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There was no arguing with the fact that even with his challenged sense of style, Barack was a catch. He was good-looking, poised, and successful. He was athletic, interesting, and kind. What more could anyone want? I sailed into the bar, certain I was doing everyone a favor — him and all the ladies

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